In 2023, Selena Gomez was vocal about having fun with her single life, usually poking enjoyable at her relationship standing on TikTok and even releasing her music “Single Quickly.” On the time, she shut down hypothesis about her love life regardless of being briefly linked to Drew Taggart of The Chainsmokers, insisting she was fortunately unattached.
Quick ahead to immediately, and all the things has modified. Selena is now married to file producer Benny Blanco, confirming their romance in late 2023 earlier than tying the knot in 2025. The pair, who had identified one another for years via music collaborations, turned their friendship right into a love story that has captured followers’ hearts.
All through 2023, Selena Gomez, 31, has not shied away from sharing her single relationship standing. Nevertheless, the singer and actress just lately confirmed that she and file producer Benny Blanco are courting.
Whereas Selena’s relationship historical past consists of high-profile romances with stars like Justin Bieber, The Weeknd, and others, she’s now centered on her new chapter with Benny. Have a look again at her courting historical past and the way she discovered lasting love.
Nick Jonas
Again after they had been younger Disney stars, Selena and Nick Jonas had a cute little romance that began in 2008 after he broke up with Miley Cyrus. Selena even performed Nick’s love curiosity within the Jonas Brothers’ 2008 music video, “Burnin’ Up.” Sadly, the romance didn’t final very lengthy. And in 2015, Selena remembered the harmless fling as “pet love, you realize, it was very candy.”
Taylor Lautner
One other one in every of Selena’s earliest studs was none apart from Twilight star Taylor Lautner! They met in 2009 whereas filming motion pictures in Vancouver (Selena was capturing Ramona and Beezus and Taylor was capturing Twilight: New Moon).
“Kristen [Stewart] was staying in my resort. [Taylor] would go to her, so we had been continuously working into one another within the foyer—and we ended up assembly,” Selena defined in a 2009 interview with Seventeen. “We’d exit to lunch and dinner, however I knew he had paparazzi following him and I had paparazzi following me. So we actually simply needed to hang around, go bowling and stuff, and it went slightly too far, I believe. Folks had been getting slightly loopy about us.” Nevertheless, Selena confirmed she was single by the point of her Seventeen interview. Her greatest pal, Taylor Swift, went on so far Taylor for a number of months later that 12 months.
Zedd
The “Naturally” songstress additionally had a quick fling with internationally identified DJ Zedd, whom she dated in the beginning of 2015 after assembly at a recording studio. The 2 labored collectively on the music “I Need You To Know,” which was launched in Feb. 2015. Forward of the music’s launch, they teased the collaboration with flirty social media posts.
“He’s this cute little German, and he’s bought actually lovely eyes and he’s very candy and humorous,” Selena gushed on the time. She additionally referred to as Zedd “gifted” in an interview. By April, the 2 had referred to as it quits, however remained on good phrases. “I like [him] rather a lot and I undoubtedly had a factor with him, which was good,” Selena admitted in July 2015.
Selena additionally sparked romance hypothesis with One Path singer Niall Horan in 2015 (after which once more in 2019), and with Pirates of the Caribbean star Orlando Bloom in 2014 and 2016! Nevertheless, Selena denied the romance hypothesis for the final two (Niall additionally denied the years-long rumors in 2020).
Charlie Puth
Selena and Charlie Puth collaborated on the monitor “We Don’t Discuss Anymore” in 2016, however there was some speaking between the 2 happening behind the scenes. “I don’t kiss and inform, however the one method a music like [‘We Don’t Talk Anymore’] can come throughout as actual is that if there’s one thing else happening behind the scenes,” Charlie mentioned in an interview with Billboard. “And that’s what was occurring [with Gomez]. Very short-lived, very small, however very impactful. And it actually messed me up. I’m attempting to place this the easiest way potential: It wasn’t like I used to be the one particular person on her thoughts. And I believe I knew that stepping into — what I used to be getting myself into.”
Afterward, nevertheless, a supply near Selena shared with PEOPLE that the 2 “by no means dated.”
Justin Bieber
Selena’s two most well-known relationships had been with Justin Bieber and The Weeknd. If there’s one movie star couple that defines what on-again, off-again means it’s Selena and Justin. They sparked courting rumors in 2010 after hanging out at IHOP collectively, and the connection grew to become official in 2011 with a crimson carpet look on the Self-importance Honest Oscars Get together (adopted by many extra dates at high-profile occasions).
The 2 had been on and off till 2018. In between their “on” moments, they each dated different folks. In fact, for Justin, a type of girls was Hailey Bieber, who he finally married. Justin and Selena had been linked within the fall of 2017 and starting of 2018, however break up for good that March. CLICK HERE for a full timeline of their love.
The Weeknd
Selena and The Weeknd dated for 10 months in 2017. The 2 first met on the 2015 Victoria’s Secret Trend Present after they each carried out on the catwalk. It wasn’t till Jan. 2017, although, that they had been first linked romantically after being noticed on a dinner date in L.A. The outing was adopted by extra sightings, in addition to a visit to Italy later that month, the place they went Instagram official.
The exes made their relationship very public by attending the Met Gala collectively in Could 2017. In addition they went to Coachella collectively that spring. “It’s actually arduous once I would need to spend a lot time hiding issues,” Selena admitted throughout an interview with On Air With Ryan Seacrest in July 2017. “It’s an excessive amount of stress, and I believe everybody will get over all the things finally … I simply need to be comfortable. If that’s me simply being myself, then I don’t actually care.”
The 2 finally referred to as it quits in October 2017, however Selena mentioned that they ended on good phrases. “One thing that I’m actually pleased with is that there’s such a real friendship [between us]” she instructed Billboard in Nov. 2015. “I actually have by no means skilled something like that in my life. We ended it as greatest mates, and it was genuinely about encouraging and caring [for each other], and that was fairly exceptional for me.”
In March 2018, The Weeknd launched his My Pricey Melancholy EP, and there appeared to be many references to Selena. On the monitor “Name Out My Identify,” he even hinted that he supplied to donate his kidney to her when she wanted a transplant the earlier summer time. “I nearly minimize a chunk of myself to your life,” he sings within the music.
In August 2023, Selena denied that her new music “Single Quickly” was about The Weeknd. “Couldn’t be extra false,” she mentioned on to Hollywood Life on Instagram.
Drew Taggart
In Jan. 2023, it was reported that Selena and The Chainsmokers’ Drew Taggart have been “casually” courting. “They aren’t attempting to cover their romance by sneaking round at members solely golf equipment,” an insider instructed Us Weekly, including that their new romance is “very informal and low-key.” They “go bowling and to the films” after they spend time collectively, the supply added.
Selena may be very “affectionate” with the rocker, the insider famous, and he or she “can hardly hold her fingers off him”. General, they’re “having quite a lot of enjoyable collectively”, the insider mentioned on the time. Whereas they had been photographed in public collectively a handful of occasions, although, the romance shortly fizzled out, with Selena insisting that she was “single” by the tip of the month.
Benny Blanco
In December 2023, Selena confirmed she was courting file producer Benny after months of hypothesis. When PopFactions shared a put up captioned, “Selena Gomez seemingly confirms she’s in a relationship,” the Disney Channel alum responded with a easy, “Details.” Across the identical time, she additionally “preferred” a number of posts in regards to the couple on Instagram, additional fueling pleasure about their budding romance.
The pair already had a historical past of working collectively, having collaborated on Selena’s 2019 monitor “I Can’t Get Sufficient.” In response to on-line chatter about her love life, Selena revealed that she and Benny had really been courting for about six months by then, placing the beginning of their romance round June 2023. Benny even jumped into the feedback of one in every of Selena’s Instagram posts on the time, leaving a flirty heart-eyes emoji.
As their relationship deepened, Selena spoke extra overtly about him in interviews, calling Benny “one of the best factor that’s ever occurred to me” and praising his potential to make her really feel safe and cherished exterior of the highlight. The couple made red-carpet appearances collectively, and their chemistry shortly gained over followers who celebrated seeing Selena comfortable in a secure, grounded relationship.
By September 2025, Selena and Benny had tied the knot in a romantic ceremony in Santa Barbara, California, surrounded by shut family and friends.